Shouldn’t a “sexuality counselor” know how to fuck?

February 21, 2009

Upon special request of a regular Balls Monologues reader, I was asked to provide official commentary on the following article, containing the following quote:

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/ian-kerner/viva-la-vulva_b_167967.html
“As any man who has spent time in the trenches will tell you, the female orgasm is an elusive thing. Like Bigfoot and quality television, we know it’s out there; we just don’t actually come into contact with the real thing all that often. Understanding female sexuality can be as complicated as Euclidean geometry, and when the final exam is a woman’s orgasm most guys fail miserably (we’re not graded on a curve). ”

The author, Ian Kerner, bills himself as a “sexuality counselor.”

My response is in the previous post, Viva La Vulva. Fellow commenter and guyinist Michael McKLA had written:

Among my various business interests is an adult video production company. Trust me on this, I see a lot of female orgasms. This is because the women in this business both generally enjoy the sex and also enjoy the money they make — and it’s also because the director doesn’t interfere. This enables the performers to enjoy each other, despite the crew, heat and equipment distractions.Regretful orgasms? If the ladies are having any regrets, I don’t see them. …

A variety of vibrating rings are available at Wal-Mart, and many other retailers, for $6.95 or less. Trojan makes one: http://www.trojancondoms.com/Product/ProductDetails.aspx?ProductId=18

Of course, I usually use their Magnum. As I said in my comment, there IS more to it than just the vibrating ring.

PS guys: here she is. Click on her pic to see her looking better as a brunette – which is how she showed last night. More on her later.

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